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Am I good enough?! A question that I always used to ask myself a lot.
Since my childhood I had a huge fear of loosing people I love. We could analyse it psychologically and probably get to the point that my father left our family very early and that this would be the starting point of this fear- or whatsoever.
Through my life I always felt that this is a handicap. And it was. Because fear minimizes your freedom and inner peace.
I used to try to look after my friends/partners/lovers, be there for them, support them, desire them or to feel passionate about them. Fearing tjey would leave me, if i fail to do so.
I still support others . But from another point of view from now on.
If I had been really honest with myself, I would have recognised some people not being a good influence in my life. I would have seen that some of them used me- to make themselves feel better, to manipulate me, to make them look more positive, sickening me or probably just taking my positive energy to feel nice.
There were times I asked myself: Am I good enough for them? Am I good enough to keep them by my side?
I am still a friend of reflecting my own behaviour towards other people. And God no, I'm not perfect.
But I have learned to ask myself: are people good enough for me?
Do we enrich ourselves?! Do we take time to check on one another?! Is the other person honest with me and his or herself?!
Do they ask me out to spend time together?
So if you feel uncomfortable with someone ask both questions and you will know if you empower each other or if it's better to let go.
And I know that I am good enough💛
#personal #empowerment #bekind #loveonly #selfportrait